Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) April/May 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 65

6. Meditate/Pray Cultivating the self-nurturing practice of meditation and prayer can be deeply supportive to your healing process. Meditation intentionally connects you to your breath and body, and supports you in decreasing stress, pain, and overwhelm. Prayer connects you to a source greater than yourself and supports you in feeling loved, protected, and deeply cared for. As Paramahansa Yogananda wrote, “Meditation is like giving a hug to ourselves, getting in touch with that awesome reality in us. While meditating we feel a deep sense of intimacy with God, a love that is inexplicable.” Choose to nurture yourself with meditation and prayer each day. 7. Acknowledge What is Going Well and Strengthen Your Gratitude Practice. One way we can cultivate resilience which is so needed in the healing process, is to acknowledge what is going well and what we are grateful for in our lives. Choosing to focus on what is going well will prime our brain for the positive and uplift our mood. Recognizing what we are grateful for changes our brain chemistry and neural pathways and is nurturing and healing. Sam Owen reminds us, “How we care for ourselves gives our brain messages that shape our self-worth so we must care for Recognizing what we are grateful for changes our brain chemistry and neural pathways and is nurturing and healing. Wilson Schaef’s wisdom and stretch out of your comfort zone and ask for help. You will bless yourself and the other person with this act of self-nurturing. ourselves in every way, every day.” Choose to acknowledge what is going well and what you are grateful for along your healing journey. May you find ways to weave these empowering self-nurturing practices into your day and experience the healing effects as you nurture peace in the world from the inside out! Sending you so much peace, love and gratitude, Kelley Kelley Grimes, MSW - Kelley is a counselor, speaker, internationally bestselling author, Aspire Magazine expert columnist, and self-nurturing expert. She is passionate about empowering overwhelmed and exhausted individuals to live with more peace, joy and meaning through the practice of self-nurturing. Kelley also provides professional and leadership development to organizations dedicated to making the world a better place. She is married to an artist, has two empowered daughters, and loves singing with a small women’s group. Learn more at www.CultivatingPeaceandJoy.com and download your free Self-Nurturing Mobile App 65