Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Apr/May 2018 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 29

Every day you are presented with the opportunity to flow gracefully through life’s challenges instead of feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck. In such situations, you can find emotional balance in the midst of distress. You can let go of your expectations and “go with the flow.” When you remain open and receptive, you tap into a divine flow of energy and trust that whatever is happening is for your highest and greatest good. *Like a surfer riding a wave, once you trust the experience and relax rather than resist, you move smoothly through any wave. With awareness, balance, and flexibility, you can keep from falling off your board and being caught in the undertow of life. Here are 6 Ways to Strengthen Your Spiritual Resilience and Thrive: 1 Develop a Positive Mindset: Research suggests that resilient people “bounce back” from negative emotions and experiences quickly and effectively. They use a positive mindset to cope with and find meaning in difficult situations. By sustaining such positivity, resilient people maintain a high vibration of energy which contributes to their physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Practice thinking positively even if you do not feel this way all the time. To undo the devastating effects of negative thinking, you need three times as many positive thoughts to override the negative ones. The moment you notice any negative thoughts, pause, take a few deep breaths, and shift your attention from your head to your heart. This positive tipping point is not easy to achieve, but once you start developing more positive thoughts, you will broaden your positive perspective too. “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” – JON KABAT-ZINN Dwell on the positive aspects in your life. As your day comes to a close, allow yourself to think about three positive things that happened during the day and why you believe they happened. Appreciating what shows up in your life, uplifting or challenging shifts you to a miracle mindset and supports genuine resilience. 29 To do so, you have to trust that your spirit is stronger than any situation you can possibly face, and with every setback comes even greater transformation. Seeing life from this spiritual perspective, you view any problem, challenge, or difficulty as a stepping stone for change.