ASMSG Romance Erotica Ezine June 2014 | Page 4

ARTICLES About rituals #BDSM #ASMSG #Dominance #submission #EroticRomance Princess and I During our play date past Saturday we kept our eye’s open, albeit in a discrete way. Princess and I like to watch and being watched. Just before they started playing one of the couples did something that caught my eye. Later that evening, on our way home, I discussed my observations with Princess. It made me happy me finding out Princess had noticed it too. Yesterday evening, over the phone, Princess and I talked about it again and I’m sure it will remain a topic for a while. Princess loves wearing her collar when we play. It helps her change her mindset. Sometimes I forget to put it on though. On other occasions Princess likes to wear her collar when we go to bed for a good night of sleep. We do not have a protocol for the use of her collar. But far more important is the absence of rituals in our D/s relationship. I think I should give some rituals so Princess gets even deeper in her mindset. It certainly will help her transition from a busy day into her role as a submissive. Also I believe rituals can strengthen our D/s dynamics even further. Rituals and protocols will add extra fun, richness and structure to our D/s play. It touched us when we noticed how one of the submissive’s respectfully bowed for her Sir while he put on her collar. They also have a kind off signoff ritual. Princess agrees with me. We definitively need a few rituals.