ASMSG Romance Erotica Ezine June 2014 | Page 22

Marilyn *I’ve noticed some D/s stories have tags that use a capitol ‘M’ to denote a dominant male, and small ‘f’ to denote a submissive female. So if I see M/f, I not only know it’s about a man and woman, I also know it’s a dominant male and a submissive female. By the same short & sweet method, if I see M/f/M, not only do I know the story is a ménage where both men make love to the woman, I also know she’s submissive and the males are dominant. I liked this post by Kim Dare defining some acronyms used in erotic writing. The article was written in 2008, but I think these terms are still in use. Marilyn Lakewood is our latest UP and Coming author! Diving into Sugar Kink Ink, her debut novel “Chase’s Hard Wear” is expected to be released December 2014. This new series revolves around light bondage and BDSM themes that tantalize until you scream! “Chase’s Hard Wear” will be the first of three and maybe more in the series. Marilyn writes stories with hot, alpha males to inspire her during the long Northwest winters. She loves creating XXX romances with protective, hardlovin’ heroes and sexy fantasies. It makes sense to me. Princess, a Collar and #BDSM #EroticRomance #Dominance #submission Princess and I A small part of this post was inspired by my friend Vile and his post “Should A Submissive Be Allowed To Wear A Collar” and the replies and a link to two beautiful posts, here and here, by Little Bopeep and Mynx’s Sir. I replied too, kind of half-hearted I admit, knowing I was going to write something on this topic. After all this is a diary. It is Princess and my diary. BDSM carries a vast and varied cargo of flavors and a different experience for each of us. For Princess and me D/s is mostly a sexual orientation. I do not own Princess except for what she has given me. Princess has given me her heart, her trust, her Love and her body. When I think about it I have never been as close with someone as with Princess. I respect Princess and I love and trust her beyond reason. Looking at her, seeing tha t postcoital glare on her face can make me cry. It is as fucking simple as that. Our relation is thus a D/s based one. No Daddy/Baby Girl or Master/slave dynamics although I’m pretty sure Princess will tell you, when I am out of ear sight, she sees herself as my sex slave. Do I or would we wish a 24/7 D/s relationship? That is an interesting question and for the moment the answer would be a full hearted NO.