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SHARED LIVES Mary is a companion for me and it’s the best thing I ever did. I’ve enriched Mary’s life and she has enriched mine.” ‘I LOOK FORWARD TO IT’ Yvonne Lovell, of Greenford, is a respite carer for Shared Lives. Two years ago she was ‘matched’ with Geoffrey Cottrell. Geoffrey has Asperger syndrome which affects his ability to interact socially. He is intelligent and speaks five languages (as he proved during our visit) and loves playing, and winning, at dominoes – as you can see in the picture. He lives with full-time carers but stays with Yvonne when they go on holiday. He also goes to an organised activity every weekday – and Yvonne looks out for him twice a week when she supports him at the Albert Dane Social Group at Hanwell Community Centre. Yvonne, who used to be a social worker, said: “He looks forward to coming to the community centre because he is part of a group and he gets so much out of it.” Geoffrey loves playing dominoes She is keen to point out the two-way nature of the relationship. “I think I may even get more out of it than Geoffrey,” laughed Yvonne. “I look forward to it. I am a people person and empathetic so I enjoy the one-on-one support I give and the relationships I have built. All my family know Geoffrey now.” Councillor Hitesh Tailor, cabinet member for health and adult services, said: “There are many positives to caring for an adult with learning disabilities, and Shared Lives benefits everyone involved. Carers, and those they support, all tell us what a great difference it makes to their lives, and it provides a good alternative to residential care. Our carers are critical to its success and we are hoping to recruit more. I would encourage anyone who is interested to find out about the allowances, training and support that we offer.” MORE INFO ■ Visit www.ealing.gov.uk/ sharedlives ■ Call 020 8825 5436 ■ Email [email protected] Yvonne and Geoffrey around ealing Autumn 2014 27