Relationship 911
So you have relationship problems huh? Well, most people would "Welcome to the club and I hope that everything works out for you". Some people mean it and others don't which is why you have to be careful who you tell and why you tell them about your relatioship. It is more ikely that more than half of the people that you know or someone you know, knows has or will have some type of relatioship 911 problem. theproblems seem to range from an assortment of things like cheating, lieing, back stabbing, loneliness, terrible sex life, bad friend choices and more. Did you ever stop to think that when you are on the receiving end that you have more power but you let the other person take it from you? It is true, when something happens in the relationship caused by your mate they become stressed, worried and more that you will find out and do you realize that is FEAR? Yes, for a brief time until you actually find out they are the ones afraid and living an uncomfortable life. People do things mainly because they can but also because they know that you will let them which is really messed up considering if everythig got out into the open they have more to lose than you do. A great deal of those relationships DON'T last if they person did it to hurt you or "just because" as it is put sometime. You can however rise up and be the one that is truely happy at the end but only f you are willing to give up what you want to see for what really is there in front of you. That is the hard part of what you will have to go through and accept as being REAL! After that you can move on but not without the "closing" which has to be done so if you are going to start a new life. Humm, new life naw that's not really what you are doing. It's more like you are giving your old life an energy boost which is more than what any doctor would order for a broken heart. Stree relief, high shoulders and good backbone is your key words to your new happy kingdom where you NOT your old partner rules!!!
You can tell yourself many things but make sure that they are TRUE so that you will make or break your own life. Yes, be in charge of your feelings, be in control of you thoughts, make ALL of your own decisions! If you are going through anything then let this be the moment that you find someone else to like, love and be happy with. Let this be the moment that you enjoy the company of the person that YOU have chosen to start over with. Take just one step without a tear, take on step withut worrying about your broken heart and just live for "It's about me".
So you see when you have a relationship 911 crisis DO NOT panic just take those moments of hurt and pain and build a better, wiser, healthier you. It is NOT impossible to change your appearece so why do you feel it is so impossible to change your attitude just because you are hurting? There will always be a day or time when things won't go the way thaat you or your patner expect them to go but what is so inportant to remember is that no matter what with real love between the two of you and patience things can really be worked out. True love is something that over shadows even the worst moments that is how you can tell wether the hard fight foor your relationship is worth it. What you decide to do for yourself in the moment of reality of what your relationship is all about is ALL up to you so take your time and think very carefully the answer is in your head. Put your heart behind to do what you need to do clearly and without worry.
I am not saying every relationship is bad or can't be saved but there are some that have to be let go of because they are so if yours is on then open your eyes and let go! There is someone else out there who is your equal in love, passion, feelings and have the respect to show it.
II say this to you "I am not a love doctor but I do make magazine house calls" (Laughing)
Enjoy your life, you deserve it!