20s when they realize that their
body clocks are ticking. This
pressure to find a partner and
have children before it’s “too
late” encourages single straight
women to take stock of their
lives, mentally mature and make
any necessary changes to find a
proper mate.
Gay men on the other
hand have no such pressure and
therefore feel that time is limitless. As a result, we are never
forced to really grow up and
spend the rest of our lives acting
like we’re still in our 20’s. Not
having that moment in time to
take stock of our lives means that
we don’t stop and think what it is
we are really looking for.
Straight girls are
looking for men who can be
daddies to their children.
Gay boys act like children
who are looking for sugar
daddies.
Straight girls look for a partner
that will be a suitable father to
their children. They wonder if
their man will be able to provide
for his family in the future. Does
he share the same values? Is he
patient? Is he loving?
Gay boys on the other
hand are looking for guys who
can provide for them in the moment. Does he turn me on? Is he
hot? Is he good in bed? Personally, I would like to have children
and hope to find a man that not
only satisfies my needs now but
who will also be a loving father in
the future.
I’ve realized that these
kinds of men can’t be found
amongst the headless torsos of
Grindr.
Straight girls look for
men with big ambition. Gay
boys look for men with
big..
Sexual chemistry is an important
part of a relationship but it’s not
the most important part. Many
gay boys place too much importance on physical attraction,
dating men with big biceps, big
chests and big egos. After a while
though the attraction wanes and
the relationship fails.
Then they repeat the
cycle, finding a man of similar ilk
and wonder why that relationship disappoints too. Long-term
relationships are built on shared
values, friendship, mutual understanding, love and patience
and straight girls understand this.
Straight girls look beyond the
purely physical and are attracted
to men with ambition, goals, intelligence, humor and other qualities
that exceed the peripheral.
Straight girls look to
build a home with their
partner. Gay boys look for
partners at clubs that
play house music
As a gay boy, there comes a time
in your 20’s when you realize that
gay clubs are all the same. Wherever you are in the world they
tend to be filled with the same
people (10 people you meet in
gay clubs), play the same music
and leave you with the same feelings at the end of the night.
Sure, they can be fun on
the odd occasion but when you
make clubbing the primary means
by which to pick-up men, you are
bound to be disappointed.
Straight girls have realized
that their future partner probably
wont be found on a sweaty danc P