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whole lives we have been developing the two in tandem without giving it a second thought. When we first start to masturbate, we are discovering our external sexuality. As we get just a little older, the emotional/rational parts of our brain develop and our internal sexuality begins to emerge. Throughout our lives both parts of our sexuality continue to develop and shape what we can call our overall sexuality. When we masturbate we are unconsciously relying on our overall sexuality to bring us to climax. When we have sex we are unconsciously making the decision to remove autonomous control over our internal sexuality and giving part of the control to someone else. This means, for humans, the ability to ejaculate during coitus is also governed by the degree in which two people are emotionally able to bond. E.i.: Presumably, the closer you two are the greater each of your “potentials” for a pleasant and/ or faster climax will increase. Q. I have heard that if you have an uncut penis you get more of a better climax, is that true? A The easy simple answer to your question is yes; people who have foreskin have described to experience what seems to be more sensation during sex and climax than someone who does not have foreskin. The foreskin that is removed during a circumci- sion contains many thousand more nerve endings that would have been used partially, among other things, for sexual stimulation.