ARIES MAGAZINE 2014 MAY | Page 77

LL Cool J I lost my bottom virginity, the most important of all, to an enormous guy who looked exactly like LL Cool J. It was the first time I’d been with a black man, the first time I’d seen a penis piercing, and the first time I let someone persuade me to do something I didn’t really want to. But I did, and it was great...and painful...and the only time where I felt like something monumental had happened to me. The next morning, as I stumbled out of his poorly furnished apartment and took the train back to my apartment. I felt like a new person, like I had finally seen and done it all, and that I could finally enter into the greater conversations about sex that were happening around me. I thought I had seen and done it all and that he really would call me like he promised. He wouldn’t, and boy, I certainly hadn’t. Bloody Hell Lost my virginity at the age of 16 on Halloween night. My g/f at the time and I decided to have sex under a tree at the lake. Considering it was at night and not easy to see we finished up and headed back to my house where I found out she was also a virgin because I had a white t-shirt on that was covered in blood at the bottom. My dad saw it and made a joke about my Halloween costume even though he knew exactly what had happened. Just didn’t want to embarrass us too badly. VIRGIN SSIONS CONFE Letting One Lose I was 22 when I lost my virginity. I was so exicted at the time due to the fact that it was with a guy I thought I never would have ever been able to get. We got undressed fairly quickly and dove right int