ARIES MAGAZINE 2014 MAY | Page 42

Sally Fields Actress “Sam is my youngest son, by 18 years, and he’s gay. To that, I say: So what?” writes the award-winning actress. “Growing up, Sam wanted desperately to just be like his older brothers — athletic, rambunctious and even a little bit macho. He wanted to beat Eli at tennis, trounce Peter at computer football and learn everything about every basketball player on the court. But Sam was different. And his journey to allow himself to be what nature intended him to be was not an easy one.” courageous dynamic men Men and even yes... women. kicking ass and making a difference. Sally Fields Athlete Eby knew he wanted to tell his team himself, but there was some work to be done before that was possible. “It has taken me years to accept myself for who I truly am, so it’s irrational to expect everybody to unconditionally accept me right away. However, the one thing that I hope that I can count on from each of you, my teammates, is your respect. Your respect as a friend, your respect as a teammate, and your respect as a man. 4 2 M A Y 2 014 / ARIES