does the client’s life change for
the better but his family and the
attendees in the room will be
impacted as well. When we can
expand our consciousness only
good can happen, or no good
if you have no desire to change
and then feel called to. Most
people want the suffering to be
over and seek a dramatic change
for the better in many areas of
their lives. Rarely do we expect
our suffering and turmoil that
we experience to be intertwined
with those who came before!
It’s very shamanic that we
can heal heaven and earth
simultaneously. I always try to
get to a place of compassion
for those who want love and
need love to ease the pain that
was frozen in time. Opening our
hearts is the best place to start,
especially with those who hurt
us. A working client gets closure
with a rep for that person or
event to finally have the last
word and turn away to a life and
their future without that event
dominating their subconscious. I
find acceptance of life and all its
ugliness and beauty is the goal
during any Constellation Healing
experience.
I’ve let you know a lot about the
process to help you understand
how we get to the transformative
places we go to release and heal
what doesn’t belong to us but
our historical ancestral lineage.
We do this so the chi of life can
expand and flow strongly in a
new, healthier way as if life itself
was taking a deep breath to
move forward into the mystery
as it unfolds, unencumbered by
dramas or traumas that are long
gone and no longer exist in the
physical realm. When the past
is complete, we can let it go, like
a wave receding into the ocean
from whence it came. The past
has waited eons to be complete;
it is safe now to show itself and
the hidden beauty of strength
and survival is possessed in the
present, yet eternal, now!
The eternal
now is the true
pinnacle of
presence we all
share equally
together, living
and dead.
The age-old pain
and suffering
from memories
carried by the
living can rest
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in peace with the family history
as we view the past in a new
way without the unresolved
change haunting us in the
present, like a dark shadow
keeping us from seeing the light.
This process brings back trust,
order, and clarity into the light,
along with compassion. We
also have a greater depth and
understanding of much more
than right or wrong. What would
you do in their shoes?
People attending a constellation
healing experience have reps
to represent the dead or living
ancestors unbeknownst to
them. Our ancestors, though
disembodied in the physical
realm become alive again, which
they are in our subconscious
mind. Maybe it’s their DNA
that they shared with us that
epigenetically gives us access
to what’s hidden beneath our
genes. Many times, the truth has
been lying in wait for the right
time to be expressed without
judgement, condemnation,
or remorse. In this place of
unconditional love, which is
beyond duality, they can reveal
their secrets to heal the ties that
bind and the wounds unhealed
once and for all. After all, we are
them and they are us. Our very
physical make up is borrowed
for a time, never owned but
shared from one generation to
the next. It’s what we do with
that time in between that’s most
important.
“Life is a gift,
plain and simple”
The types of dynamics that show
up are not for the faint of heart.
My constellation workshops have
usually between fifteen and twenty
attendees and three to six clients
prepared to work, using the group for
support of god only knows what will
show itself for the deepest healing
and transformation not thought
possible moments before. The
universal, all-knowing field of eternal
consciousness never lies. As Jack
Nicholson would say, “Can we handle
the truth?” Yes we can, or at the very
least, the constellation facilitator can
for the group.
One of the issues from many
workshops include a fear of ridicule
from a callous grandfather towards
his vulnerable grandson. The client/
grandson was working on not being
afraid to be a success in life. If you
cannot even get approval from
your family, how will you get it from
the marketplace? This client was
aligned with his great-grandfather,
who was connected to him to help
heal the lineage of wounded males
that were never good enough or
could measure up in all sorts of
ways to their dads. As a result of
the healing and release, the client
could courageously take his place in
the lineage with honor and strength
behind him to support him in life
and business, which was the goal,
creating more ease around success
and money.
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