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#1) Both of you ignore your phones unconsciously because you’re actually
into each other. No Facebook, Instagram, emails, and God-forbid, Grindr.
Somehow a magical feeling overcame you both and you’re gravitated up
and outward towards one another. That’s an energy you can’t ignore.
#2) Neither of you are looking at hot guys around you. Nothing sucks more
than knowing your date is checking out other guys in front of you. Clearly
he’s not into you, and having a floating eye is the biggest sign that he’s a
cheater. But when both of you are so glued in, not out of pretending to be
polite, but because both of you actually think you’re the hottest in the room,
it’s incredible.
#3) You’re laughing authentically rather than pretending to. He’s funny and
he gets your sense of humour. Even if it’s about something neutral or about
a particular circumstance that happened on the date, the laugh is real and it
opened up a piece of your heart. You were comfortable enough to show it—
that says something interesting.
#4) He’s passionate about at least one topic. If he’s not at all passionate
about anything whatsoever, you have more reason to doubt him. It tends to
show how much he’d be passionate for you, which would likely be minimal.
#5) There’s something about him you want to see again. You can’t explain
it, but there’s something mysterious. Both of you were putting up appear-
ances of course; there was a spark you might have caught a glimpse of,
but not enough. You need to try and spot it again.
#6) He cares about what’s going on in the world. A man who cares about
the news and knows about what’s happening is a person that pays atten-
tion. He cares for human kind and more than likely knows the power of
knowledge, which means he’ll also put his best foot forward when main-
taining a relationship.
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