MISS MANAGEMENT
carol levey | levey enterprises
What to do if you’re dating a co-worker
I am an onsite manager of a large apartment community.
I spend so much of my time with my team and though I never
envisioned dating any of my coworkers that is exactly what
has happened. We determined that we would keep our
relationship outside our work place. Therefore, we have told
no one and so far it has worked. The downside of our decision
is not knowing what anyone else thinks. So, I’m asking, what
you do you think?
I’m not surprised. My experience that has spread over years,
geography and a variety of people tells me that your story is not unusual.
However, your situation needs immediate attention. Eventually, your
relationship will become public knowledge. Before this happens you
need to know where you stand and develop a plan. What does your
employee handbook outline about these circumstances?
Depending upon how specific these directions you’ll want to be
receive confidential guidance from your supervisor and/or H.R.
department. Often your personal relationships can dictate career
decisions. One of you might need to resign or ask for transfer to another
work location.
Don’t let someone else tell your story. If this personal relationship
is going to endure and thrive it needs to be transparent to those that
rely on your leadership, communication and results. Take charge while
it is your choice to come forward before being found out. The choice
is yours but realistically it is a choice of sooner, not later.
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