barbeque. Let them know that they’re not alone, and offer to do
whatever may be needed to help them get through the days.
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Even if you may not be able to directly support and/or show care
to a service member, you can still give back by supporting their
families. There are always local hotlines and support groups to
bring light and guidance to those families who may be suffering
from the loss of a loved one. You can join a group or volunteer
to participate during their meetings, and offer up your confidence
whenever they feel like they need to speak to someone.
If the family has not lost their service member, they still may be
dealing with depression and anxiety because of long term sep-
aration, and these families could really use support – even more
importantly, a friend. Do you know someone in your community
who currently has a spouse, child, or other family member that is
serving in a military branch? If so, shine a little light on them next
time you see them, and let them know that you’re appreciative.
Do you have a neighbor who may be in the same boat? Make
them a treat and take it on over, or drop in and invite them to a
As a general way to remain thankful, you can always give a do-
nation to a charity, whether you choose a local organization that
specializes in giving back to veterans and service members in
your community, or a national organization. This is a perfect op-
tion for those of us who are just starting out, or those of us who
may be uncomfortable with getting personal, especially if we
don’t know any service members personally. Donations can be
made in a singular fashion, or you can sign up for a monthly gift.
There are also charities that specifically handle unemployment
and “welcome home” aspects, so choose the one that you
would like to help, and go from there.
Remember to always offer a helping hand to those in need, as it
is a vital relationship that we must maintain as a nation in order
to function fluidly and happily. From sending entire packages, to
making a small contribution each month, every little bit counts.
Remember to thank a service member if you see them on the
street, and never let them forget that their services will not go
unnoticed. We must show our military that we are thankful for
them, and that we support them, even through disagreements
and hard times; they are still human, and they deserve to know
they’re appreciated.