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Steps to Building
Stable Relationships
“If you are at war with another person in mind,
then you are a house divided against self. Mental
health begins in the soul.” Dr. Paul Masters

The illusion:
Far too many of us spend time trying to beat the odds
of our own ill-lived decisions. We work against

This means you will constantly appear in your own
illusions as the victim until you realize that there is
more to this universal life than “you.” We all have
wounds, hurts and pains. We all have shared in a form
of suffering and every soul has gone through the cycle
of death and rebirth. Now, This is not something you
have to agree with right away, but you certainly will
experience it in some form or fashion.

The reality:

ourselves by claims of a deeper evil lurking in the dark

The reality of our personal afflictions are, “we are not

trying to trip us up. We go through many cycles of

alone in our journey.” Every race, sex, and or ethnic

blame and claim to abuse and suffering, making our

group has some sort of story to tell from their own

decisions even at more fault than what they really are.

perspective. When we can take ourselves out of the

I know youʼre probably wondering how could I utter

personal line of fire when others convey their wounds,

such remarks when I have not spent one day in your

we can then start to build a relationship through

shoes? Truth is we all travel long roads from decades

understanding from a connected, unified perspective.

to lifetimes. Iʼm sure for the one that is reading this

What that exactly means is that you have to listen

now has probably said on one occasion or another,

from the heart and halt reacting from your ego. To go

that, “Life is what you make it.” If you have formed

deeper, when you are warring with another in your

your lips to speak such truth, then you already can

heart and mind, then the war is not with them, but with

agree that your claim to pain and suffering is just that.

you. Instead of a big lash-out, try to connect with

It gives no validation that a consistent evil is out to get

yourself-- why you feel so strongly against this person

you. In fact, a lot of us spend so much time in blame

in your heart and mind. Seek your answers in

and shame that we fail to look at our own dark side in

meditation and prayer. Even if your answer doesn't

order to grasp the light. The good news is that we will

come right away, repeat your act of peace within. This

then become our own force of good and evil until we

is the first step in building any stable relationship. Until

can manifest a perfect balance of our inner God or

we meet again, Namaste.....

inner peace.

By Spiritualist Intuitive Torrie C