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MY TOP 5 Postpatrum Tips Prioritize Sleep Unfortunately “Sleep when the baby sleeps” advice can only really fully apply to your first child. After my second child was born I remember feeling like I had been hit by a train every day, dragging my feet everywhere. I was my toddler’s sole provider of entertainment, so when the baby slept I still had responsibilities. I had to let go of the guilt that surrounds ‘screen time’ and allow the TV to entertain him while I had a nap during the day. I could not workout if I was still in what we mothers call zombie mode. Sleep came first. I know this is going to sound crazy but to my greatest surprise and joy baby number three has been significantly better, and I have been able to return to training quite quickly, and “survival mode” only lasted 3 weeks. Ask for Help There is some sort of weird mind game we play with ourselves when we become mothers, we think that if we need help or admit that we are drowning in our duties it makes us unworthy mothers and somehow “unfit” for the job. This is simply FALSE. ASK for help! Leave the baby and with a trusted loved one or friend. Even if it’s for a 20 min walk or a half hour workout session, clear your head and let people help you. Start Pelvic Floor and Transverse Abdominis Exercises Right Away I knew I wanted to get back to training as soon as I could with baby number three so I started doing Kegels almost the next day after the baby was born. Every time I would sit down to nurse, I would remind myself to do my Kegels. Later I started doing stomach vacuums and other exercises for my transverse to help tighten my core from the inside out. It is critical that you train/strengthen these muscles first! 51. Fight for Routine. Newborns are the exact opposite of anything routine, so this one will feel nearly impossible at first. There are several days that I have gone down to the basement to squeeze in a workout, only to return upstairs again after only 5 minutes to attend to the baby or my other kids. It’s very easy to get discouraged and feel like you are failing more than you are succeeding. Don’t give into the discouragement, take comfort in knowing the tables will turn eventually with persistence, you will have more successes than failures and you will find yourself in a ‘groove’ so to speak. Set a Goal. Whether it is stepping on stage or fitting into your pre-pregnancy jeans, setting goals for yourself will help you stick to a routine and plan. I like to start small at first. For example, right now being 12 weeks postpartum, my goal for myself is to train 6 days a week, even if it is only for 20 minutes each day, monitor my protein intake (aiming for 1g/lb of lean body mass) and make sure I am drinking enough water. Once I have accomplished these goals and feel like they are well set into my daily routine I can then set another goal and so forth. I can tell you not to get discouraged all I want, but until you’ve lived through it once, you may feel like your body will never be the same again. Think about the first time you stepped into a gym or started a workout regime. You probably made a few mistakes and stumbled along with your bambi legs until you were comfortable in performing the exercises. properly. Motherhood is much like this. I am sure I made every mistake in the book with my first son, sorry buddy, and I struggled. I struggled accepting my body’s new shape and struggled to find motivation to workout. Now that I am a little more ‘seasoned’ as a mother I still make mistakes, but I also know that every ‘fail’ is not determining my destiny it is just solidifying my resolve to work a little harder to reach my goals. Motivation is not reliable and I cannot depend solely on it to dictate whether or not I will get my workout in that day. I have to MAKE myself do it, and that self-discipline brings me great benefits not only physically but mentally as well. Laura Taylor Laura Taylor is a Photographer based in NW Calgary, specializing in maternity, newborn and family portraits.  Her passion stems from her 4 beautiful children who are her inspiration.  Her love for all things health and fitness motivated her to work with a fitness mama during her pregnancy, to document this beautiful time in her life, as published in this issue.  You can find more of her works at” laurataylorphotography.ca