2017 Miniature Horse World SUMMER Issue | Page 26

How to Make Horse Showing FUN AGAIN Success comes in many forms, so don’t limit yourself to just blue ribbons. T here may come a time in your horse show career when you find yourself saying: Why do I put myself through this? Am I enjoying this? These feelings usually arise when you’re under consider- able stress or after a cycle of disappoint- ment. It can happen for many reasons, and when it does, it’s time to put the joy back into competing with your horse. 24 Miniature Horse World SUMMER 2017 It’s Just a Horse Show If you let it, competition can make you very self-centered. Your thoughts can be- come consumed with the need to win, and therefore others need to lose. Enjoyment goes out the window, and a talented show- man can end up walking away from some- thing she loves. Perceive your horse show as a coopera- tive act. You and others agree on rules and codes of conduct in order to compete to- gether. Much fun can come from focusing on others. How can you give back to fel- low equestrians at the shows you frequent? Could you volunteer or become a part of a group that helps others? Focusing on someone else’s needs can be motivating and fulfilling.