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SOCIAL MEDIA screen time The pros and cons of social media and special needs children M ost parents are thankful that they grew up before the age of social media. Social media can be a scary thing. And although it scares them too, psychologists who deal with this in their practices have advised parents to get over their fear – quickly. Dr. Melissa Fiorito-Grafman, a neuropsychologist with offices in Ridgewood and Closter, says, “Parents need to be educated consumers. Be as knowledgeable as possible about the technology and your children, and the fear starts to slip away.” However, there are definitely pros and cons to the use of social media. If your child has special needs and/ or learning differences that will affect 30 2017 EDITION | SPECIAL PARENT their impulsivity, impulse control or ability to read non-verbal cues, the use of social media can be that much scarier. Dr. Rachelle Theise, a licensed clinical psychologist and clinical assistant professor of child and adolescent psychiatry at NYU Langone’s Child Study Center, with locations in both Hackensack and New York, discusses some of the pros. “It is an easy way for kids to be connected to their peers, at least superficially, and know what’s going on outside of school,” Theise says. “It allows for some time to plan what to write or comment. Kids can get guidance from an adult who can help navigate social nuances and appropriate things to say. And it allows for 201magazine.com KATARZYNA BIALASIEWICZ/GETTY IMAGES/ISTOCKPHOTO WRITTEN BY LESLIE PERLMUTTER