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TOGETHER Stolfo and her boyfriend, Matthew, live in the same housing complex in Allendale. Syndrome Day. This even led to an appearance on WNBC New York Nightly News with Chuck Scarborough. In the speech, Stolfo said, “When parents have children like me they always worry about their future. I am making my future now. Even though I am differently-abled, nothing has ever held me back from making my dreams come true…I am living proof that we can all grow and develop no matter how differentlyabled we are. Let’s put our minds together and build even more independent futures – worldwide!” An obvious inspiration to those in the special needs community, Stolfo has a lot to teach typically developing individuals as well. The same rules apply to everyone about living life to the fullest. Her advice to everyone is: “If you see someone that is disabled, go to that person and help them.” She adds, “Be happy and live life.” ❖ Resources • National Down Syndrome Society is the national advocate for people with Down syndrome. ndss.org • ARC of New Jersey is the states largest organization advocating for and serving citizens with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families. arcnj.org • ECLC of New Jersey provides education, careers, and lifelong community to children and adults with special needs. ECLCofnj.org 2 0 1 6 E D I T I O N | S P E C I A L PA R E N T 33