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LISTS plenty to be thankful for 8 WAYS TO TEACH TOTS GRATITUDE Lead by example. Children are quick to mimic their parents’ behavior, so make a point of expressing your own gratitude when kindness is shown or a gift given. Children will learn to follow suit quickly and it will stay with them throughout their li ves. 2 “Please” and “Thank you” go a long, long way. A baby’s first words may be mama or dada, but it’s never too early to put please and thank you in a child’s vocabulary. 3 For Thanksgiving, ask young children to make a list of five things they are grateful for and also ask them to draw a picture that expresses the sentiment. 4 Kids are fascinated by parking meters, so the next time you are in a downtown shopping district and you’re ready to leave, invite your child to put some extra money in the meter for the next shopper who comes along. 10 NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2016 | (201) FAMILY 5 While children are making their holiday wish lists, ask them to also make a list of gifts they would like to give to the special people in their lives. It will teach them to be unselfish and to consider others’ wants and needs. 6 Create a box of homemade thank-you notes. Kids are always looking for an art project, so why not make something useful? The thank-you note will seem like less of a chore if it’s created for fun rather than by responsibility. Then, it will be given with pride and love as a token of esteem. 7 One good turn deservers another. If your child is on the receiving end of a kindness, encourage the child to return it when it’s least expected. The element of surprise will make it more like a game and you can plot when it will take place, reinforcing the message. 8 The glass is almost always half full. If children are taught to be positive from a young age, they will see a world full of opportunity and potential. In turn, they will be naturally grateful for life’s beauty and be inclined to be open to its infinite possibilities. ● – COMPILED BY AMELIA DUGGAN 201magazine.com BRIAN A. JACKSON/GETTY IMAGES/ISTOCKPHOTO 1