Vital Link no. 69 - Summer 2017

vital link The Newsletter for Through the Roof Love, Acceptance and Oneness – Dalesdown 2017 By Miggs Clark, Volunteer Giving Thanks Bristol Beginnings Get Celebrating! A Different Perspective Several things hit me as soon as I arrived at Dalesdown: the exquisite setting and peaceful environment, the love and care from Margaret and the team, and how deeply touched and humbled I was by the families and their beautiful children – those who were disabled and their siblings. Quality and fun time suddenly opened up for parents who day after day devote themselves to their families with love and selflessness. There were special times for parents and pastoral support available at all times. All this in an atmosphere of love, acceptance and oneness. I felt daunted by the huge responsibility of loving and supporting these children in a way that came anything close to the beauty of relationship I was seeing all around me, but I trusted that the Lord had brought me here to serve and got stuck in. A very experienced helper came alongside me, such a blessing, and we worked together to make a holiday for two lively and delightful twin boys. Our physical activity levels soared! Premier Lifeline, The National Christian Helpline (www. premierlifeline.org.uk) is available to all on 0300 111 0101, every day from 9am until midnight. What an action-packed few days! Bouncy castle; a fire engine with a Dad gamely getting soaked; country park and adventure playgrounds; crafts, cookery, swimming; walks, sports, worship and sharing; praise parties with the amazing Act 4; the famous talent show and food, food, food – we did the lot! No: No: 60 Summer 69 SUMMER 2014 2017 Back home, I work for Premier Lifeline, the National Christian Helpline, which offers a listening ear and Christian support. We have connections with many organisations including Through the Roof and the other members of the Churches for All network. A few months ago I was casually looking through my email inbox when I noticed a link from TTR’s Bristol Disability Network. There was a plea for help at an Easter holiday near Horsham for autistic children and their families. As soon as I opened the link, the Holy Spirit gave me a massive nudge and I was sure that I should go. This certainty remained and the dates worked for me, so with a great deal of nervous anticipation I applied and readied myself for helping at the holiday. I have had experience of looking after older children with Asperger syndrome in a mainstream school setting, but this was something new. Everything was beautifully organised, with all the information anyone could possibly need and a wonderful programme to look forward to. This preparation formed a perfect foundation. The brilliance of Dalesdown is that as well as giving a holiday to the children who have additional needs, their siblings are also cared for and able to relax and make new and meaningful friendships with others who understand. One of the siblings, Amy, said “I love coming to Dalesdown because here Sam is normal”. I was hugely impressed by the Dalesdown experience, and grateful to God for every moment! If you’re interested in volunteering to help on a holiday, please contact Margaret at the office on [email protected] or 01372 749955. We’d love to hear from you, and you could make a huge difference. www.throughtheroof.org